I know loads of people have already done their ‘new year, new you’ goals etc. But, I needed some time to think on mine and I these were the ones which appeared to me the most:
Number 1: Stop wasting time
This may sound very clique, but it is so true. Us, as humans, seem to think that our time is almost infinite. We go about our daily lives, filling in the same routine, doing the same job, without actually thinking; ‘what if I am not here tomorrow?’. Our lives are not infinite, we don’t live forever, and for some of us our time here is very limited. The fact that in the next few decades, people you love might not be here anyone should capitulate into not wasting anymore time. Take action. So, if you want to go travelling, ask that hot guy on a date in your class, or simply take a long walk. Do it. The clock is ticking and you are in control of what happens in your life, nobody else.
Number 2: Be myself
This past year I have done nothing but purely take a breather and focus on the things what I want. Since, at times this can get lost or you can. I’ve completely and utterly focused on my love for books and for writing alongside my university work. I’ve gone out with new friends and old friends. I’ve travelled to different countries and had fantastic experiences. I want nothing more to repeat this. Being myself has made me the happiest person I could be, being myself has made me realise who my true friends are and finally, it has opened up a whole new part of me I never knew existed before.
Society today tries to conform us into looking like the next woman or man in magazine; we want the makeup, the same hair trends, the same relationship goals. But what if this didn’t matter? What if we weren’t so busy trying to compete? Their would be a lot more individuality within the world. Being an individual, being a bit different or slightly weird, is something I will always embrace. Who wants to conform? I don’t.
Number 3: Stop overthinking
I know personally, I can get so wrapped up in work or other responsibilities that I forget about the things I really want or I begin to overthink about situations or things from the past. I know from speaking to other people that they overthink too. Who doesn’t?
It’s so hard not too. As, whatever issue life presents to us, we overthink them. Big or small. The one thing which is going to help me overcome this goal is to realise that overthinking does not lead to insight. The only thing that is going to allow to me see that, is experience. Acting on actions lead to finding clarity, whereas me overthinking about them, does not.
“Thinking has, many a time, made me sad, darling; but doing never did in all my life….My precept is, do something, my sister, do good if you can; but at any rate, do something.” ~Elizabeth Gaskell
Number 4: Work harder
Keep pushing yourself. I know if I continue to push myself I can achieve so many more goals. There has been so many times this year when I have decided that I couldn’t be bothered or that I was too tired. But, realising that you need to work harder is the first step and then it just simply becomes an action that needs to be reminded every now and then.
Number 5: My blog/writing
So I was debating whether or not to put this as a goal or not but it is. I wanted this year to work so much more on my blog posts, doing regular book reviews and getting the content I like out there. That I want people to read.
Another, major goal for me this year is going to be to start writing my own book. I have loads of ideas and whenever I start something, I never finish it. This time, I want to be able to finish it. I want to achieve at least writing one book this year and completing it.
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